Explicit Erotic Sex Stories (4 Books in 1): The best collection of stories to explore your sexual fantasies and apply them with your partner or lover!

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Another sexual fantasy for women would be the desire to go all outand be wild in a sex tape with their partner. They want to get off on the thrill of knowing what they are doing is risky, and can possibly be seen by others even though it hopefully won’t be. Sadism refers to a person, a sadist, who gets off on inflicting pain. Their necessary counterpart is masochists, those who get off on receiving erotic pain. As always, S&M relationships require consent from all parties involved. Once all parties feel enthusiastic about what's about to go down, S&M can look like impact play, erotic humiliation, or dripping hot wax on one another. 19. Wax play Another fun game I play with myself is based on the idea of “sexual archetypes” that I heard about on Sex Nerd Sandra’s podcast and LOVED. The idea is that we can take on different internal personas that represent different facets of our sexual nature. It’s not exactly like role-playing or cosplay (thought that stuff is awesome too, and it could definitely go there!), but more about figuring out an energy system around a sexual persona. I have several sexual personas that I love to play with in my mind. Common desires that come with this sexual fantasy would be wanting to be blindfolded, so that you can’t see. Another is being tied down so you can’t touch.

Fantasizing can (and often does) take place in our brain without any external assistance since our minds are wired for storytelling. But because life is full of so many distractions, sexual fantasy stories can help you stay focused during sex. There are many benefits to using audio erotica to enhance your sex life. 1. Erotica keeps your brain focused on arousal

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If you’re one of those interested parties who has never done it before, you might want to start with smaller toys first and talking with your partner about the possibility of douching. Sensation play In a landmark 2016 study, Dr. Nan Wise — neuroscientist, sex therapist, and author of Understanding the Neuroscience of Pleasure for a Smarter, Happier, and More Purpose-Filled Life— mapped the brain's response when subjects merely imagined pleasurable stimulation on their genitals. Just by thinking about it, the pleasure centers in their brains "lit up like a Christmas tree," Wise said. Some people get off on the idea or sight of their significant other getting it on with someone else.

In the end, what you do with your erotic imagination is up to you. You can share it if you'd like — or keep it all to yourself. That’s what’s so great about sexual fantasies you cut from your own cloth: They’re all yours, and no one else's. Yes, it’s an unequivocal yes! Because thinking about stuff is not the same as doing it,” said Wise. As the famous saying goes, “It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you'd come home to eat.” Why not start off your next sexual encouner with a massage, rubbing the oil, well, wherever you want. Sex in a car Many people also fantasize during partnered sex. There is nothing wrong with fantasizing about a kinky scene involving bondage or paddling while performing oral sex on your partner or using a strap-on.

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Whether you like the sound of hot wax and nipple clamps or feathers and sexy whispers, why not tell your partner some of your favourite sounds, tastes and sensations. This increasingly popular branch of sex therapy describes a bunch of different practices and exercises that add a layer of sexuality to mindfulness, to help you stay present in your body while experiencing pleasure, train your mind to focus on whatever arouses you, and engage in a non-judgmental curious sexual mindset. Try out basic exercises like pleasure mapping (which Dipsea has a guide for), mindful masturbation (which you can read about here), and sensate focus (which you can read about here).

If you’re curious but a bit tentative, try starting off with some light spanking and hair pulling. Oil up Audio erotica can be a great place to start if you don't want to take the training wheels off yet to explore sexual fantasies of your own making. Unlike visual porn, audio erotica still exercises the muscles of your erotic imagination, asking you to fill in the details and paint the full picture. While we always recommend Dipsea, there's also plenty of free ways to try audio erotica like r/gonewildaudio and Girl on the Net. Some couples like to experiment with power play and take it in turns to dominate or submit (this is known as switching), while others are only turned on by playing one role. ‘To figure this out, talk with your partner before play and remember: the sub is the one who’s actually in control at all times,' says Knight. 'Although the Dom may guide play, the sub calls the shots, and decides when play is over.’ You imagination is a completely safe space," said Dipsea's Gutierrez. "We can play out fantasies that are risky or illicit that we would never actually want to happen in real life. In our minds we’re free to experiment without consequences." Familiarize yourself with (but don't feel limited by) common sexual fantasiesThis one might have to wait until the vaccine comes in, because if you’re into watching people getting down and dirty you might considder going to a sex club.